Ryan Armstrong
Published on 01 April 2013
I feel that, in light of recent events, and because y’all seem to unknowingly be demanding this be addressed, it’s time for us to say some things out loud that we’ve been shying away from. It’s time for us at the Executive Office to address an issue that’s not only plaguing our chapters, but our alumni as well. It’s time to lay it all out on the table. It’s time to discuss purpose.
Far too many people have either posted, commented, or said to me in person that their main reason for being in Sigma Pi is because they wanted to party and have fun in college, that they joined not for the purpose of fraternal bonds in brotherhood, or because of the ideals to which we each subscribe our name at pinning, but because Sigma Pi happened to throw some pretty sweet parties, and this intrigued them. To these people, and you know who you are, I say thank you for being honest. Really. It takes a lot to admit to yourself and to others that you blatantly lied when pinned, and disregarded pretty much everything you learned throughout your pledgeship. It takes some real guts to openly admit to people who spend countless hours and years of their lives trying to educate you on the value of the fraternal movement, that you really didn’t care to begin with, that they were just wasting their time. And finally, thank you, for helping us at the Executive Office know that we’re not doing enough to help our chapters keep out the worthless members like you.
But we will be.
Personally, every time I hear someone tell me that they came for the party, it makes me want to work that much harder to take Sigma Pi back to what it really is, a brotherhood, kindred minds working together for shared purpose, MEN who choose to lead, not BOYS who choose to follow.
The best part is, those of you who feel so adamantly that partying is the ONLY purpose of a fraternity are in chapters that are either failing, struggling to do anything productive, or are on the verge of being shut down. At what point are you able to make the correlation that the two might be somehow related? If you RECRUIT members with a party, they will STAY for the party. And excuse the blunt delivery, but what happens when the beer runs out?
Read more: So You Came For The Party?